Keeping your marriage healthy

Sometimes it is difficult to keep your marriage healthy, especially when you have multiple kids and you both work. It seems like there are not enough hours in the day! The best thing to do is make "grown up time". Get a babysitter once a month and have date night, don't just go to a movie or dinner. Do something fun and exciting like you did before the two of you lived together, or had children. Most people think the best part of a relationship is the beginning...getting to know each other, your first kiss, and dating. This is the only the "best part" if you let it be. Take charge of your relationship let tomorrow be the best part and the day after. Also be spontaneous, with children and work your life consists of a routine...it isn't very fun if you have an itinerary for your only night out together for that month. Oh and don't be afraid to rent a hotel room for the night in your town, it makes for a nice get-a-way with out leaving.