Saturday, March 21, 2009

How to get the date

Dating is a game, the girl that gets the guy is the one that learns the rules and how to play the game! The first rule of dating is you have to show interest, but you have to make him want you more than you want him. If you want a true relationship you have to be fun, witty, and be able to carry a conversation. Just being cute and ditsy will make him want to sleep with you, thats it and once that has happened he will not want anything to do with you. Harsh but true. To make a solid foundation for a relationship you must be compatible and learn to be friends. Keep in mind that becoming friends first could also be a little sticky if you break up, it is hard to stay friends after you have been in a relationship. (especially if you were intimate). You must always look nice, but not too nice, my husband tells me I look gorgeous any time I wear sweats and put my hair in a pony tail...you just have to listen to what he tells you! It also never hurts to keep a pack of gum with you, nothing is worse then someone you are interested in with bad breath. When you are first interested the best thing is to go out in a group, this way there are no uncomfortable moments when you are trying to get to know each other, do something fun...take a group to a karaoke bar where there is singing, pool, etc. Remember if you are going to drink don't have too much it's never appealing if the guy you are interested thinks you are going to be a lot of work. Some people are happy drunks, but more often than not my girlfriends end up crying, throwing up, or being really annoying by then end of the night if too many drinks have been downed. Hope this helps to get you started! Good luck.

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